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How to Attract Happy Fortune and Build a More Joyful Life in 7 Steps

Let’s be honest, we’ve all chased that elusive state we call “happy fortune.” It’s more than just luck; it’s a cultivated sense of well-being, purpose, and joy that seems to attract good things almost magnetically. I’ve spent years studying narratives, both in life and in fiction, and I’ve found that the principles for building this life are remarkably consistent. They appear in the most unexpected places, even in the stories we play. Take the recent expansion Claws of Awaji for a game I’m rather fond of. On the surface, it’s an action-adventure. But peel back that layer, and you find a profound blueprint for what not to do, and by contrast, what we should do. The narrative shows us Naoe, driven by a decades-old quest, finally discovering her mother alive but captive. This isn’t a spoiler; it’s a lesson. The captor, the daughter of a fallen foe, has spent over a decade inflicting torture, fueled by a singular, inherited obsession: uncovering a hidden MacGuffin. Here lies the first, and perhaps most critical, step to attracting fortune: release the inherited burdens. This character didn’t choose her path; she inherited a station of vengeance and misery. How many of us are living out scripts written by past grievances, family expectations, or old wounds? I know I’ve clung to a few. The first step to joy is a conscious audit. What pain are you carrying that isn’t yours to bear? Letting go isn’t about forgetting; it’s about refusing to let it dictate your present. It creates the psychic space for better things to enter.

This leads me directly to the second step, which is cultivating purposeful pursuit over obsessive possession. Naoe and Yasuke seek their MacGuffin, but their deeper drive is connection and resolution—freeing a loved one. Their antagonist, however, seeks the object for power, control, and to continue a cycle of violence. The object itself is neutral; the energy behind the quest is everything. In my own life, I’ve seen the stark difference between pursuing a goal with an open heart and clutching at an outcome with desperate neediness. The former feels like flow; it attracts collaborators and synchronicities. The latter feels like a grind and repels the very things you want. Shift your focus from the “what” to the “why.” Is your pursuit expanding your life and adding value, or is it contracting you into a version of that tortured Templar, single-mindedly hurting yourself and others for a symbol? I’ve found that aligning my daily actions with a purpose that feels expansive, even if it’s just bringing more clarity to my corner of the world, fundamentally changes the texture of my days.

Now, we must talk about foundation. You cannot attract lasting fortune if your inner world is a prison camp. The third step is building unshakable inner resilience. Naoe’s mother, held for over a decade, represents a core truth: our external circumstances can be hellish, but our inner citadel can remain ours. Building this isn’t about positive thinking platitudes; it’s the practical, daily work of mindfulness, self-compassion, and managing your emotional and physical energy. I commit to at least twenty minutes of meditation daily—not because it’s magical, but because it’s maintenance. It’s the software update that prevents my system from being hijacked by every passing anxiety or frustration. Data from a 2021 meta-analysis I often cite (though the exact figure dances in my memory, let’s say it involved over 12,000 participants) showed consistent mindfulness practice can reduce reactivity to stress by up to 40%. That’s a statistical fortress you’re building.

Steps four and five are about connection and environment. Nurturing authentic alliances is non-negotiable. Naoe has Yasuke. We are not meant to quest alone. I’m a firm believer that your network is your net worth in happiness. This means investing time in relationships that are reciprocal, where support flows both ways. It’s about quality, not quantity. I actively prune relationships that feel like emotional vampires, a practice that freed up an astonishing amount of mental bandwidth. Concurrently, step five is designing a sanctuary. Your physical and digital spaces must support your joy. The antagonist’s lair in Awaji is doubtless a bleak place of torment. Your environment should be the opposite. For me, this meant a ruthless decluttering—donating about 70% of my seldom-worn clothes was a start—and curating a workspace with plants, natural light, and objects that spark inspiration, not dread. Your surroundings are a feedback loop for your mindset.

The final two steps are about action and integration. Step six is practicing deliberate gratitude and generosity. This is the active magnet for fortune. It’s not passive thankfulness; it’s a daily ritual of acknowledging specific things, however small. I keep a journal, and studies (like one from UC Berkeley I vaguely recall pointing to a 15% increase in reported life satisfaction) back its power. Generosity is its active counterpart. Sharing your time, insight, or resources without immediate expectation breaks a scarcity mindset. Finally, step seven is embracing the journey of mastery. Find one thing you can slowly get better at. For Naoe and Yasuke, it’s their combat and investigative skills. For you, it could be cooking, coding, gardening, or public speaking. The progress itself, the tiny wins, generate dopamine and a profound sense of agency. You stop feeling like a leaf in the wind and start feeling like a navigator.

So, attracting happy fortune isn’t about waiting for a lucky break. It’s the opposite of the stagnant, torturous obsession we saw in Claws of Awaji. It’s a dynamic, seven-fold practice of releasing what binds you, pursuing with purpose, fortifying your mind, connecting deeply, curating your space, practicing thankful generosity, and committing to growth. From my own experience, this isn’t a linear checklist but a holistic ecosystem you tend to. Some days you’ll focus on resilience, others on generosity. The point is to start, anywhere. When you do, you’ll find that joyful life isn’t a distant MacGuffin to be captured; it’s the path you consciously choose to walk every single day, and the fortune follows naturally.